Banking on Change
June 13, 2010 8:24 pm by Dan HardyOn Friday the 18th June, from 7:30-10:00pm, Small Ritual Coffee Society, in association with Initiatives of Change, presents an Indian themed evening with the showing of an award winning short documentary, Banking on Change. Music will be performed by guest musician Prakash Joshi and Roy Naidu. Admission is by donation ($5 – 10 suggested). All proceeds go to supporting the work and outreach of Small Ritual Coffee Society.
About the Film:
Two-thirds of India’s 1.2 billion people live in the nation’s 600,000 villages. Despite India’s economic growth, the disparities between wealth and poverty are enormous. Many villagers migrate to the cities in search of work and are forced to borrow from private money lenders at very high interest rates. Once they begin to borrow, they rarely get free.
An encounter with Initiatives of Change as a University student changed the course of J S Parthiban’s life. The South Indian bank manager set out to challenge the system and bring about change for those who need it most. He encouraged beggars to open bank accounts in New Delhi, and pioneered micro-loans to villagers in his home state of Tamil Nadu. This film tells his story—and theirs.
I feel this film has great relevance here in North America as an antidote and challenge to the recent crisis of confidence we have seen in our financial institutions. The 12-minute video produced by Andrew Hinton of Pilgrim Films for IofC India is a testament to what one person can do to bring change where they live and work.
Chris Hartnell
Initiatives of Change
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Prayer Night for Small Ritual Coffee
June 8, 2010 10:00 pm by Katie AdamsJoin us in prayer this Thursday June 10th, from 7:30pm to 8pm (yes, that short!) at Small Ritual Coffee. We would love to have many people lifting their hands to God together in one place. If you can’t be there, please take a moment during the night to pray for the finances, the board, the staff, and the upcoming Friends of Small Ritual meeting.
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The Comparison Game
9:10 pm by Brent UnrauHello Church family! In light of last week’s sermon, ” A Complex Confession,” I thought the following chapter from Henri Nouwen would fit in perfectly. Take some time to read it and, if you find the courage or inspiration, feel free to leave a response.

It is obvious that these feelings are distorted, out of proportion, the result of projections, and very damaging for a healthy spiritual life, but still they are no less real and can creep up on you before you are aware of it. Before you know it you are comparing other people’s age and accomplishments with your own, and before you know it you have entered into a very harmful psychological competition and rivalry.
I talked about this with John Eudes (my Spiritual Director) today. He helped me analyze it a little more. We talked about the vicious circle one enters when one has a low self esteem or self doubt and then the perceives other people in such a way as to strengthen and confirm these feelings. It is the famous self-fufilling prophecy all over again. I enter into relationships with some apprehension and fear and behave in such a way that whatever the others say or do, I experience them as stronger, better, more valuable persons, and myself as weaker, worse, and not worth talking to. After a while the relationship becomes intolerable, and I find an excuse to walk away feeling worse that when I started it. My general abstract feeling of worthlessness becomes concrete in a specific encounter, and there my false fears increase rather that decrease. So real peer relationships become difficult, if not impossible, and many of my emotions in relation to others reveal themselves as the passive-dependent sort.
What do you do? Analyze more? It is not hard to see the neurotic dynamism. But it is not easy to break through it to a mature life. There is much to say about this and much has been said by psychologists and psychotherapists. But what to say about it from a spiritual perspective
John Eudes talked about that moment, that point, that spot that lies before the comparison, before the beginning of the vicious cycle or the self-fufilling prophecy. That is the moment, point, or place where meditation can enter in. It is the moment to stop reading, speaking, socializing, and to “waste” your time in meditation. When you find your mind competing again, you might plan an “empty time” of meditation, in this way interrupting the vicious circle of your ruminations and entering into the depth of your own soul. There you can be with him who was before you came, who loved you before you could love, and who has given you your own self before any comparison was possible. In meditation we can come to the affirmation that we are not created by other people but by God, that we are not judged by how we compare with others but how we fufill the will of God.
This is not as easy as it sounds because it is in meditation itself that we become painfully aware of how much we have already been victimized by our own competitive strivings and how much we have already sold our soul to the opinions of others. By not avoiding this realization, however, but by confronting it and by unmasking its illusory quality, we might be able to experience our own basic dependency and so dispel the false dependencies of our daily life.
The more I think about this, the more I realize how central the words of St. John are, words so central also in St. Bernard’s thought: “Let us love God because God has loved us first.” The Genesee Diary (Report from a Trappist Monastery) Henri J.M. Nouwen, pg. 90-92
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Friends of Small Ritual Coffee Society
May 28, 2010 8:56 pm by Dan HardyEvening for the Friends of Small Ritual Coffee Society
Thursday, June 17th, 2010 | 7:00-10:00pm
@ SRC: 1237 Johnston Road
You are invited to this first-of-its-kind event because of your ongoing interest and connection to SRC, even if it has been simply to frequent the coffee shop to enjoy a lingering conversation over a good cup of coffee.
The evening will focus on:
- celebrating the story of SRC (come prepared to share what you value about SRC or what it is that attracts you to SRC).
- clarifying the mission and vision of SRC.
- communicating SRC’s present situation, including plans for growth and ongoing financial needs.
- exploring creative solutions to increase practical involvement with and support for SRC in order to achieve sustainability and move into a season in which SRC can thrive.
- praying for SRC.
Thank you for your friendship with SRC—good stories always include great friendships. You are already a big part of the story and your presence at this important evening is deeply valued. We hope the evening will be a strategic step forward in deepening and continuing the good story of SRC.
Warm regards,
The Board of Directors
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Southpoint Central
May 4, 2010 12:26 pm by Dan HardyNote: for those of you who subscribe to the Web site via e-mail, sorry. This comes a day late.
Southpoint Central tonight!
- when: Tuesday, May4th, 6:30-8:30pm (ish)
- where: Hardy home (click link for location)
- what: shared meal and community building conversation (meal provided)
- who: anyone who attends or is interested in the church at southpoint
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Pennies Project ll: The Surprise of Epiphanies
April 23, 2010 10:17 pm by Dan HardyI hope you enjoy reading the three brief articles below as they help to give some extra clarity and meaning regarding our weekly time of sharing the pennies that come our way. If you are curious, feel free to join us as we take some time each Sunday to share with each other the surprising small ways in which God has shown us that he loves us and is with us, or add your own account of your pennies, your experiences of bumping into God’s presence in the ordinariness of your life routine on our blog.
” There are no ordinary things. A row of cabbages, a farmyard cat, a wrinkled motherly face, a tiled roof, a single sentence in a book—each can be seen as a tiny revelation of God as Creator. Just as fragments of sunlight break through a dark wood, so parts of creation seen for what they are act as ‘patches of Godlight’ in the world”. (C.S. Lewis, Letters to Malcolm)
“I feel an urgency at this stage in my life to name the human expressions and vivid manifestations of our life in the Spirit. I believe that nothing human is foreign to the Spirit, that the Spirit embraces all. Our mundane experiences contain all the stuff of holiness and of human growth in grace. Our world is rife with messages and signatures of the Spirit. Our encounters with one another are potential sites of the awakening and energizing that characterizes the Spirit. But so much goes unnoticed. We fail so often to recognize the light that shines the tiny chinks and dusty panes of our daily lives. We are too busy to name the event that is blessed in its ordinariness, holy in its uniqueness, and grace-filled in its underlying challenge. ” (Joan Puls, Every Bush is Burning)
“In this age of frenetic activity and general cacophony we need to fight to find time alone, to sweep out the dust that clogs simple meditation, to clear the cobwebs that shroud from ear and eye and nerve endings, to notice the spring breeze through your hair, a friend’s raucous laugh, a nighttime walk through a neighborhood eerily bathed in sterile streetlight. Epiphany, often enjoyable at face value, does not have to be an end in itself. It can be a training ground for the hunt, the search for what is fleeting, intuitive and, though irrational, still meaningful—that which gives peace with a pulse, something that abides throughout the other ninety-eight percent of life that is depressingly static, obvious, rational.
God created a world brimming with countless ingredients, far more subtle, than can fit the recipe for epiphany. These elements—the world’s beagle puppies and girls with pitchers on their heads and sunny afternoons along the reservoir cliffs—amount to more than mere take-time-to-smell-the-roses opportunities. These are classroom aides, from which one can learn to see, learn to hear the voice that brings peace amid the clatter.” (Max Heine, Pg 29-30 Spots of Time by Mars Hill Review Summer 1998)
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Meditations and Musings on Foot-washing
March 21, 2010 9:32 pm by Dan HardyPlease read these with care and attention. Let them linger and then bring your responses to our next Southpoint Central or, if you have the courage post your responses on this web site, do so in the comments.
Thanks for having the courage to enter in the challenging reality and truth of this hard to apply message.
Brent
Stinky Feet and Justice
distributed 4/14/06 – ©2006
In some Christian traditions, worship on Maundy Thursday includes a foot washing ritual. I have talked with people who have found rich meaning in this liturgical event. They tell me that it is humbling, and a striking expression of community.
As I study the account of Jesus washing the feet of the disciples (John 13), though, I’m starting to see that what Jesus did at the Last Supper has far more radical implications than any of us are likely to experience in church. When we come to the occasion knowing what will happen — and when all involved have thoroughly scrubbed their own tootsies in advance — the stunning impact of the first event isn’t there.
Try to imagine the original context. People of the time wore sandals, and the streets were full of camel dung, donkey urine, and various kinds of rotting garbage. Everybody had filthy feet. When entering a home, any person with manners would remove their sandals and wash his or her own feet. Sometimes — as a sign of incredible hospitality — a servant or a member of the household might perform the foot washing.
I’m hard pressed to think of a routine activity today which is at once so intimate and so demeaning. Foot washing is in the range of emptying bedpans in the nursing home.
There are things having to do with personal sanitation that you’ll do for yourself, but which you would never ask your friends or neighbors to do for you. And you would never, ever make such a request of someone that you hold in high esteem.
In fact, I don’t believe that those folk in biblical times really “made a request” for someone to wash their feet. That’s not something you ask a person to do as a favor. You instruct them to do it from a position of authority. “Our guests have arrived. Wash their feet, then clean the stable. Let me know when you’re done.”
Foot washing was an act that took away all the washer’s dignity and status. It was among the worst of all possible tasks, and deserved special mention beyond all other everyday activities. A Jewish midrash on Exodus says that the washing of a master’s feet could not be required of a Jewish slave. In 1 Timothy 5:10, a worthy widow is described as one who has “shown hospitality, washed the saints’ feet, helped the afflicted, and devoted herself to doing good in every way.” As a dramatic sign of ultimate devotion, a student might wash his teacher’s feet.
It is hard for me to internalize the social context and the layers of meaning that were related to foot washing. If you were fortunate enough to not have to wash your own feet, the job would invariably be done by someone of a lower class or status. Those daily dynamics of power and servility are outside of my experience.
In the modern, churchy, ritual of foot washing, we come together as friends and as peers. The one being washed cares about the experience and reactions of the washer, and is embarrassed if their own feet smell. Long ago, though, the servility of the traditional role allowed the one being washed to know full well that their feet were gross, and not care what the servant thought. It was their job to do such things.
What Jesus did on the night of the Last Supper is steeped in his society’s routine experiences of power dynamics. The disciples were bickering constantly among themselves about who was the greatest. On that last night, to slam home a message that they could not forget, Jesus taught them with his actions.
The act of washing the disciple’s feet demolishes the entire notion of status and privilege. It invalidates any consideration of “greatness.” It turns around the question about “who will admire me and serve me and meet my needs?” It asks instead, “who must I acknowledge, and how can I meet their needs?” It turns “what’s in it for me?” to “what do I have to offer?”
Some churches do foot washing as a ritual. The challenge from Jesus is to make radical servanthood a way of life.
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Within religious circles, it is often said that the environmental distress of the world is, at its heart, a spiritual crisis. If we are to live in a just and sustainable way within a global community, we need a profound change in our self-understanding, in our deepest hopes and aspirations, and in the motivation for all of our relationships and behaviors.
The servant life of Jesus, symbolized so succinctly in the act of foot washing, shows us what that deep spiritual transformation looks like. And the horrified reaction of Peter shows us how radical that transformation really is.
The call of faithful servanthood is far deeper than being helpful or kind. We are called to discard all of our aspirations for prestige and privilege. We are to find our life’s meaning in the service of God, of our community, and the web of life.
The Jesus who picked up a basin and a towel to wash the feet of his disciples is rebuking every way in which we accept inequality, and every way in which we live with assumptions of privilege. For those of us who live within the luxury and dominance of the modern consumer class, our entire way of life is challenged.
When we hesitate to forego any of our luxury for the sake of our sisters and brothers who live in the most destitute poverty — 1/6 of the world’s people live on a dollar a day or less — then we are not getting the notion of servant lives. When we find it impossible to imagine a way of life that is ecologically sustainable, because we can’t conceive of living without our gadgets and conveniences and our status, then we don’t understand the challenging message of Jesus.
On the last night of his life, when he tried to get the core of his entire message across to his disciples, Jesus washed their feet.
On this most holy weekend of the church year, may we grapple with the full challenge of that simple act.
Shalom! Peter Sawtell
Executive Director
Eco-Justice Ministries
Anonymous Blog Entry
Friday, April 10th, 2009
Last night I washed my feet. I mean, I had my feet washed. Well, actually I did both. First I washed my feet; then I went to church and had my feet washed. I also flossed my teeth and took a shower. I bet if Peter had known what was in store for him at the Passover meal, i.e. the Last Supper, he would have done exactly the same thing.
What an embarrassment to have someone (especially when the someone is Jesus–his Lord, his Christ) hold your grimy, smelly old feet in his hands. Peter says to Jesus, ”Lord, are you going to wash my feet?” Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” “No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.” Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” (John 13:6-8 NIV) Jesus, the Son of God, takes the role of a servant or even a slave.
Not only does Jesus show us our call to servanthood in the footwashing, but the footwashing is an intimate act of love. The first time I had my feet washed, I was overwhelmed by the luxurious feeling of being a beloved child in the parental hands of God. Who but a loving Father or Mother would take the time to tenderly caress and dry each little toe?
I wish I was brave enough to take my unwashed feet to church, but I’m not. It’s awkward enough for me to receive the gracious gesture of a stranger kneeling before my clean feet as servant and surrogate parent.
Lord, teach me to receive the ministries and love offered to me even in uncomfortable and humbling circumstances. But teach me also to serve with an unqualified, nuturing love. Amen.
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Pennies Project
8:35 am by Dan Hardy“When I was six or seven years old, growing up in Pittsburgh, I used to take a precious penny of my own and hide it for someone else to find. It was a curious compulsion; sadly, I’ve never been seized by it since. For some reason I always ‘hid’ the penny along the same stretch of sidewalk up the street. I would cradle it at the roots of a sycamore, say, or in a hole left by a chipped-off piece of sidewalk. Then I would take a piece of chalk and, starting at either end of the block, draw huge arrows leading up to the penny from both directions. After I learned to write I labeled the arrow: SURPRISE AHEAD or MONEY THIS WAY. I was greatly excited, during all this arrow drawing, at the thought of the first lucky passerby who would receive in this way, regardless of merit, a free gift from the universe. But I never lurked about. I would go straight home and not give the matter another thought until some months later, I would be gripped by the impulse to hide another penny.
It is still the first week in January, and I’ve got great plans. I’ve been thinking about seeing. There are lots of things to see, unwrapped gifts and free surprises. The world is fairly studded and strewn with pennies cast broadside from a generous hand.
But—and this is the point—who gets excited by a mere penny? If you follow one arrow, if you crouch motionless on a bank to watch a tremulous ripple thrill on the water and are rewarded by the sight of a muskrat kit paddling from its den, will you count that sight a chip of copper only, and go your rueful way? It is dire poverty indeed when a man is so malnourished and fatigued that he won’t stoop to pick up a penny. But if you cultivate a healthy poverty and simplicity, so that finding a penny will literally make your day, then, since the world is in fact planted in pennies, you have with your poverty bought a lifetime of days. It is that simple. What you see is what you get.” (Annie Dillard , Pilgrim at Tinker Creek)
Come join us as we take some time each Sunday to share with each other the surprising, small ways in which God has shown us that he loves us and is with us; or, add your own account of your pennies, your experiences of bumping into God’s presence in the ordinariness of your life routine on our blog. Just enter your thoughts in the comments.
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