“What does love look like now?”
We’ve been asking this question while moving through the liturgical calendar this year. The lectionary passage for this past Sunday is found in John 13, the account of Jesus’ last supper with the disciples. The chapter shows that Divine Love in this text looks like One who serves, speaks truth, shows compassion, and builds community.
An equally important question to ask after, “What does love look like now?” is “Will I choose love?” ie. Will I exercise my own moral agency, at this moment, by choosing love?
Each day, we choose to serve, speak the truth, show compassion, build community, or we choose not to. Each day, we choose where we give our time, money and attention. We have the power to choose systems, websites, businesses, and institutions that have moral imagination and care about the common good. We have the power to withhold our time, attention, and money from systems that undermine wholeness, dehumanize people, and exploit creation. When we choose systems designed with love that have moral imagination and work for the common good, we strengthen our own moral agency and amplify love.
We can’t control everything. But we can choose our part in the story. Here are some questions to ask ourselves to help us be more accountable in developing our own moral agency:
Does this action I am about to choose make people feel more seen, heard, respected, and valued?
Would I want someone I love to be treated this way?
Would I want to be treated this way?
Are the systems I support with my time, money, and attention reducing or reinforcing harm? Who is benefiting from it, and who might be harmed?
Repentance is also a way of renewing our moral imagination and strengthening our moral agency. That deep sorrow you feel when you make choices that do not align with love—that sorrow is a gift. It is like the first flush of warmth in spring. It is an invitation from God to return home.
As we come to God and to each other, celebrating the love we have managed to share, naming and taking responsibility for our mistakes, asking for forgiveness, and realigning our lives back to Love, we are amplifying love. Even our mistakes can be a place where we choose love.
Deep peace,
Anne
Rev. Anne Baxter Smith
Pastor, Southpoint Church
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